RaghaBoi

.Thursday, November 12, 2009 ' 8:29 PM Y

Ragha blogged

I have reached my 100th post :)

Let's Celebrate :)

Very long since i blogged eh? Why? Cos i have been pretty busy with alot of issues.

Been spending my Saturday nights, out. Outta my home for the whole night just to return back in the morning. Kinda like that life. The night life is so serene, calm, peaceful and COLD *shivers*. But i like it. The feeling of being alone is just so REFRESHing.

would have been 7.

now it's still 7.

7 years of friendship.

still strong and admired :)

"you chose not to believe in love.

it's not that you don't.

i don't know what kinda impression you have about love now.

maybe it's ur past relationship.

but you have believed in love.

and deep down you, u still do.

you are just trying to get that out of ur way.

stop deluding yourself dude"

- this was what someone told me when i told them that i don't believe in love. and well she decided to call me "stone-hearted", which i proudly accept. :)

Have you heard this saying "Empty Vessel makes the most noise".

It is usually used in terms of knowledge.

But i was thinking "I make soooo much of noise. Does that make me an empty vessel?"

Well, of course, YES!!!

Why?

Cos you see, my heart is empty - free of all kinda emotions, especially hatred/dislike/anger/sadness. So i make alot of noises when im with my friends.

I began questioning her.

I told her, it's not love after all i guess.

I don't believe in love.

But ur case was exceptional.

I thought that you were the only true love i found.

But you fooled me :(

and then something tells me.

NO!

That's the trap she wants u to fall in.

This love is the only love that can exist.

And that's the only love i believe in :)

Feared Innocence

RaghaBoi

.Saturday, October 24, 2009 ' 9:46 PM Y

Ragha blogged

And to all my darlings who are doing Os,

ALL THE BEST!!!

BE CONFIDENT.

DO UR BEST.

GOD BLESS :)

Namely:

My Kadai Kutti - Kanegal

(S....) Jack

Miss Pretty - Kanagesh

Mc Chicken Aatha - Vithu

and the many many more people who are doing Os.

. ' 9:24 PM Y

Ragha blogged

Right now, Im Reasoning the Existence of LOVE.
In case u didn't know, i never believed in love. And now, im actually considering that love does exist but just that i have been ignorant and confused with various 'feelings'. Am very prepared to believe that love does exist. But every time i take the effort to believe in love, something pops and makes me think again! Sad :(

Oh. I was watching this advertisement of the programme "Bathil Sol" (or wateva it is called) on Vasantham earlier on. Anitha Ayyavoo was one the speakers. And from what they spoke, i believe the argument was about dressing up.

I would like to comment on that show. Honestly, it is a surprise that Vasantham made a daring move to actually start such a programme where people, especially youth are given a platform to speak on issues which have been considered sensitive for many years. Like this dressing up topic. People use to be afraid to actually speak about the costumes that dancers/artiste wear during Vasantham shows/performances. And in the next episode, they have actually gotten Anitha Ayyavoo, a famous Indian Model. How many Indian Models do u know who Nationally famous??? Now, it's being explicitly spoken about on National TV. Great move Vasantham. One of the shows i wouldn't want to miss :)

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I was told that even if i dislike something, i should make the effort to appreciate it.
Why???
I was persistent in not going out for a Lan gaming session. The reason i gave was i dislike playing it. And that was the answer i got back.
To me, i can only appreciate something if i like it. U have to like something appreciate it. For eg, u cant possibly appreciate a piece of art if u don't like it.
People may argue that you have to know about art to actually appreciate it. So the fact that u dislike it, doesnt reason out why u cant appreciate it. U being unable to appreciate it is because of the lack of knowledge and exposure to it.
Let me ask u this. If u have interest in art, wouldn't u somehow have a basic knowlegde of art. So isn't that enough to like/dislike or even appreciate it.
All the more, appreciation is a very subjective issue. It is so perspective based. It is up to each and every individual what is appreciative to them. I may appreciate the latest technology. But the older generation may not necessarily appreciate it. U cant say that they don't appreciate it because of the lack of knowlegde or exposure to it. They have made use of the technology but just don't seem to like it - too confusing, too much of a hassle and etc.
Appreciation and disliking/liking are TWO different things. They are linked, but they are different! :)

Practicality Unassured :(:P

Cheers,
Ragha :)

.Sunday, October 11, 2009 ' 7:38 PM Y

Ragha blogged

Heys.
Wanted to blog about the moive i watched.
Aanantha Thandavam.
I cancelled all plans to actually sit home and watch that movie from start to end. So unlike me. But i didnt regret that decision of sitting down for a whole three hour movie.
Noone i personally know recommended that i watch this movie. I merely wanted to watch this movie cos of the last song - "Kana Kangiraen". The dancer, Rukumani, apparently a well known dancer; although unknown to me till yesterday, made me fall in love with her dance. This was when i watched the video in Vitz blog. That was the first time i watched that video and i got addicted to that song, of course, mainly because of the dance. I made an effort to watch that dance every time i came online. That was how beautiful the dance was. So it was just for that one song, i decided to sit in for the WHOLE movie. The last movie that i bothered to watch fully was ... cant remember! And, imagine if the movie was disgusting. I would have ended up watching two and a half hour of the movie before the song was played! Haha. It was the last song of the movie.

After the movie, when i msged my dear Sis Vitz, i found out that the moive was based on a story entitled "Pirivom Santhipon", written by the late Sujatha. I then remember one of the actors quoting one of her sayings. And so, I'm now waiting for a free time to drop by the library to get that book.

The movie revolves around four characters. Each having distinct personailty. A movie that ll youth should watch. Why? Cos for girls, the hero is cute. For guys, Thamanna is cute. Haha. No la. The main reason is cos of how the love is portrayed and how decisions that people make can affect, not only their lives but those around them. Parents influence how their child's life, whether young or old, their influence over their child's marriage. Sacrificial love. Being Naive. Perception.

I really enjoyed that movie. Something i don't normally do. This movie has values that has a close link to the lives of many people around me. A movie that i can learn from! People, do watch it. I should be blogging more about it when i have the time. Given that Deepavali is in a week's time and that i havnt started any bit of cleaing, i surely don't have the time to blog. Will catch up with blogging after Deepavali.

Till then,,

Happy Deepavali to all :)

All the best to my dear friends who are doing As and Os. :)

Cheers,

Ragha

The Individualist

.Wednesday, September 30, 2009 ' 9:13 PM Y

Ragha blogged

http://innocentdecision.blogspot.com/2009/03/here-post-dedicated-to-kanegal-cos-she.html

Cheers,
RaghaBoi
(NavaKannan) :)

. ' 7:56 PM Y

Ragha blogged

Bet many of you would have heard this phrase "first impression counts". I'm just wondering, how true is that?
It hit me today when someone I first thought was reliable, because of the image he portrayed when i first met him, turned out to be untrustable.
He isn't the first though. I have met many who don't seem to fit the image they first portray.

Let me play a 'gemini' role - that is to argue on both sides - that it's not the person's mistake and the other being done on purpose.

Case One: It isn't my mistake that the image i first portray isn't my true self.
Well, true. Sometimes, when u first create an impression, you cannot be blamed. Because you don't intentionally do it. It's just that when u meet this new person, u tend to be different, cos u are either shy or just uncomfortable being around with new people.

Take me for an example. When my Navaz first met me, they thought that i was an innocent dude - mainly quiet. That was their first impression. Or at least, specifically for my Kadai Kutti Thangachi Kanegal. But, further during that day, they came to realise that I'm not a quiet person afterall. Noisy would be an understatement. Was it my fault that I was quiet when i first met them? Or was it wrong on their part to think that i'm a quiet person? All the more, that was the first time i meeting them and they were a huge group of girls and me, a single guy - a thorn amongst the roses (and it still exists that way, by the way) :)

Another imaginary example could be, just the exact opposite of me. He could like a typical 'anjadi' (rowdy that is) when u first meet him. But as time goes, u realise that he is a gem of a person and that rowdy is a non-existent word in his dictionary. It's just a sad story where his taste suits one of a rowdy, thus portraying him as one, when he has not a single link with the rowdy-lifestyle.

Now let's move on to Case Two: I always want to create a good impression, although it is not exactly who i am.

It is because of the phrase 'first impression counts' that causes people to behave like this.They want to make sure that the first time they meet someone, they should be 'mr/mrs. nice' so that they people will think highly of them, respecting them. And as the days go by, they tend to show their true colours.

Take me again for example. My Navaz again. I could have been quiet because i wanted the girls to think that i'm innocent. So that they will actually even bother making friend with me. And after we become friends, i slowly show them my true colour - mr.sarcastic! :)

This is the two 'reasons/excuses' that i can put forth when i think of the phrase, 'first impression counts'. How true is it - i seriously don't know.
It just basically means 'do not judge the book by the cover'. Know someone in depth before u even come to a conclusion about that person's character! Not all of them are what they look like - I, personally, am a good example for this :)
However, there do exist some people who just seem to portray their character all so explicitly, such that one look at them and u can identify what kind of person/character they are. Haha. It's easier this way though, to find someone you want to be with forever.

PS: Kanegal reminded me. When i first knew her, i never thought she was a 'weak' girl (not exactly weakling kinda thing la). Due to her voice and her confidence, i tout she was physically and emotionally strong. Both she proved me wrong, in the past few years. Emotionally, she has shown tremendous 'improvement', if that's what u can call it. But physically. Haha. I still remember how she FAINTED in Commonwealth Muneeswarar temple, during Guru Peyarchi. She was standing there and suddenly, down she went! Haha. Funny it was, it was damaging for our dear Kanegal's image.
{Honestly, this has veri little link to my blog topic today. Just decided to add this in for entertainment purpose. :) Laughter is the best medicine u see}.

Psychologically Devoted.

In the deepest forest i stay.

Somewhere where,

I can see you

Crying.

Crying cos of the pain

that i never created.

Cheers,

RaghaBoi :)

.Monday, September 21, 2009 ' 8:30 PM Y

Ragha blogged

i maybe rifle trained.

i may have a silver bayonet.

i may possess a dagger.

i may be strong.

But my tongue is my mightiest weapon.

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Kaadhal ennum alaigal

adithu kondiruppathaalthaan

intha prabanjam

innum eeramaga

irukkindrathuaa?

Illai,,,

Kaadhalinaal nonthu poi

vadiyum kanneeraalaa?

................................................................

If something happens once,

it should not happen again.

If it happens a second time,

i should happen

for the third time.

.......................................

Navaraathiri.

9 nights.

9 girls.

NavaZ.